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Definitive Alzheimer’s Disease Test

You often hear Alzheimer’s caregivers say that family members or friends don’t believe that their loved one is suffering from Alzheimer’s disease. Should this come as a surprise?…

By Bob DeMarco
Alzheimer’s Reading Room
Alzheimer’s disease is hard to detect. Most personal care physicians can’t do it because the typical doctor appointment lasts about ten minutes.
Talk to most Alzheimer’s caregivers and they will tell you their loved one can fake it while at the doctor. This is especially true at the beginning when their communication skills are still intact. Have you seen this?
I think I might have unintentionally led some people here to believe that my mother is “aware” that she suffers from Alzheimer’s disease. This not the case now, and it has never been the case. She has no awareness of her Alzheimer’s.
It does intrigue me when Jay Smith, Phil, Mike, and others openly discuss how they feel, and how Alzheimer’s disease impacts them in their daily living. Have you ever heard Richard Taylor speak? They tell me he is riveting. He has Alzheimer’s disease.

It seems to me that the majority o

It seems to me that the majority of Alzheimer’s patients are either unaware or deny that they suffer from Alzheimer’s disease. Does you Alzheimer’s patient openly tell people that they suffer from Alzheimer’s disease?
With most diseases the patient can tell you they are sick. And, how they feel. My Alzheimer’s patient, Dotty, can be very sick and when the doctor asks she will say — I’m fine, their is nothing wrong with me.
his has been the case for the entire seven plus years that I have been taking care of her. She has pneumonia right now and if you call her on the phone she will most likely tell you — I’m fine.

I wonder how many times you might have heard this? S/he sounds great.

I am referring to when someone calls and talks to your Alzheimer’s patient on the telephone. Frustrating and disconcerting, right?

I could go on and on.

There is a way to dismiss the problem of people being unable to accept that a person suffers from Alzheimer’s disease; and, to get definitive evidence that a person is suffering from Alzheimer’s disease.

This is accomplished by going through a series of tests that rule out treatable diseases that present with dementia like symptoms; and then, ruling in the “type” of dementia.

This has been the case for the entire seven plus years that I have been taking care of her. She has pneumonia right now and if you call her on the phone she will most likely tell you — I’m fine.



I wonder how many times you might have heard this? S/he sounds great.




I am referring to when someone calls and talks to your Alzheimer’s patient on the telephone. Frustrating and disconcerting, right?




I could go on and on.




There is a way to dismiss the problem of people being unable to accept that a person suffers from Alzheimer’s disease; and, to get definitive evidence that a person is suffering from Alzheimer’s disease.




This is accomplished by going through a series of tests that rule out treatable diseases that present with dementia like symptoms; and then, ruling in the “type” of dementia.
In other words, getting a conclusive diagnosis of probable Alzheimer’s disease.
Once the diagnosis is “official”, you then ask the doctor for a written letter stating clearly that the person is suffering from probable Alzheimer’s disease or dementia. You could then mail copies to family and friends if you think or believe it is necessary.
I asked the doctor for the written letter of diagnosis many years ago. The only time I used it or showed it to anyone was for medical purposes.
It took many years for most of our family and friends to come to the understanding that my mother was suffering from Alzheimer’s disease. Did they believe? Not at first. I think when they first started to hear her wild and crazy stories they start to come around.
Let’s face it, most of the time they come “into reality” after they spend some “extended” time with the patient. I don’t mean hours, I mean 24 hours dayS.
You then get to see the shock on their face. You will also hear these famous words — “I don’t know how you do it”.
One of our closest friends finally “understood” when my mother told her that she was driving herself to the grocery store and mall everyday. Our friend looked on in shock — disbelief actually — as my mother described her daily activity. Our friend knew that Dotty had not driven in four years and would have been unable to navigate a mall on her own two feet. She finally “understood”.
Which brings us to the issue of a definitive test for Alzheimer’s disease. Did you get all the tests that are necessary to make a “definitive” diagnosis? If so, get a written diagnosis. Get it on paper. You will need it sooner or later.
In the article — I’m 46 Years Old, I Can’t Have Alzheimer’s Disease — Jimmy Smith describes his own definitive diagnosis.

I took my third, and ultimately final short-term leave from work – one from which I would never return. The testing continued over the next six months, first at the University of Minnesota, and then later at the Mayo Clinic.

The tests included:

  • Extensive blood and urine testing
  • Spinal taps (and blood patches to fix the leaks this caused)
  • MRI’s
  • Neurological exams
  • Balance and gait testing
  • Neuropsychological exams
  • More Neurological exams
  • More Spinal Taps
  • More Blood testing
  • A PET scan (Positron Emission Topography – very high-tech).
In order to get a definitive diagnosis you will need at the minimum: extensive blood and urine testing, an MRI, and a series of neurological tests and exams.
As far as I can tell, there are about 80 possible illnesses and diseases that present with dementia like symptoms. All of these treatable illnesses need to be rule out.
Once they are ruled out, you can then get a diagnosis and diagnosis letter.
You might actually need all of the tests listed above.
If you are at wits end, if you are driving yourself crazy, if it bothers you that others don’t or won’t believe that the person is suffering from Alzheimer’s — get the written proof.
Will they then believe you — you can answer this one.
I can promise you this, the majority of Alzheimer’s disease caregivers that find themselves with disbelieving family members or friends will find great comfort and emotional relief in knowing that they presented the definitive evidence of an Alzheimer’s disease diagnosis.
Alzheimer’s disease is hard to spot, hard to diagnosis correctly, and hard to believe.
Get the evidence.
This way you have the evidence leading to conclusion in hand. As opposed to them, forming their own conclusion based on little or no evidence.
Original content Bob DeMarco, the Alzheimer’s Reading Room

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Posted by on January 17, 2011 in alzheimer's

 

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Confessions of an Alzheimer’s Caregiver

True confession from an Alzheimer’s activist, wife, caregiver.

To be a caregiver isn’t an easy task. I am sure anyone reading this forum knows that by now. However, the issues aren’t just the actual ‘taking care.’ In addition to the difficulties of care giving, I think many of us struggle with the emotional issues of guilt and frustration, and, quite truthfully, never really knowing if we are doing the right thing…
Original content Carol Blackwell, the Alzheimer’s Reading Room

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Posted by on January 12, 2011 in alzheimer's

 

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Alzheimer’s Disease Discussed on Sidewalks TV (Video)

To all my followers. Can you help me out on this one? I am trying to deliver an important message to all Alzheimer’s caregivers and their families. They must continue to live their lives.

In a special segment, Bob DeMarco, a veteran Wall Street executive whose mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, and neurologist Dr. Mark Brody discuss Alzheimer’s Disease with “Sidewalks Entertainment” host Cindy Rhodes….

In the video below, you get to see Dotty at the gym, see Dotty climbing on to and using the treadmill, and see her interacting with me and others at the Banana Boat restaurant.

These are examples of how we live our life.

If you don’t see the video — go here.

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Posted by on December 13, 2010 in alzheimer's

 

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Dotty Says, Most Doctors are Quacks

Dorothy DeMarco is a contributing writer and frequently portrayed character on the Alzheimer’s Reading Room.

Bobby says, I am a lovable character. I also heard him say that I am a “bitch”. I have to admit I don’t remember him saying that in a long time.
I guess I feel the same way about Bobby. Bobby is a good son. Bobby is also a “pain in the ass sometimes”.

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Posted by on November 25, 2010 in alzheimer's

 

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Alzheimer’s Disease Mom Didn’t Laugh for Two Years and it was Killing Me

I’m lucky. I learned how to take action, you can do it too.

If you know a family that is dealing with Alzheimer’s disease, please share the article with them.

This reminded me of one of the saddest periods in my life. My mother didn’t laugh for over two years. She rarely smiled during this period. Severe heartache, it hurt.
I would look over and there would be mom. The glassy eyed look, the stare into what must be either confusion or “nowhere”. The look of Alzheimer’s and dementia.
Now when I look at my mother and she has that glassy eyed stare into what must be either confusion or “nowhere” — it makes my heart feel warm. Why? Because I learned by taking action — “More there.”
Original content Bob DeMarco, the Alzheimer’s Reading RoomRead more at www.alzheimersreadingroom.com
 

 
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Posted by on November 11, 2010 in alzheimer's

 

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Alzheimer’s Caregiver You Are Not Alone (Cinch Cast)

Couldn’t get the audio in clip, its on the website.

Over time, I came to believe that these feelings are more then just an idea. Knowing that you are not alone is one of the first steps to reaching that place deep inside you that often lies dormant. It is a spiritual place. Alzheimer’s caregiving unleashes a heightened sense of the world around you — you become connected.

Original content Bob DeMarco, the Alzheimer’s Reading RoomRead more at www.alzheimersreadingroom.com
 

 
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Posted by on July 22, 2010 in Uncategorized

 

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